My
colleague and friend of ten years loved making people happy with her cooking, a
“joie de vivre.” With a master’s degree in Food Science, she knew the precise
art of making cheese. As a teenager, she attended school in France with her mom,
learned to speak French fluently, and studied the many varieties of French
cheese. She never dreamed that someday she would teach French and Spanish to
gifted students instead.
A
native Venezuelan, Maribel prepared her famous paella for outdoor parties
around the campus gazebo. There was always an excuse for another fiesta or a
celebration that necessitated a party, cooking for a large crowd, and Maribel’s
talent of bringing everybody together on a short notice and on a tight budget. The
introduction of a new faculty member was a party with Maribel’s ham as the
center piece, cooked slowly with Bourbon.
Maribel
loved life and her students. She taught them to pursue their dreams, never give
up, and to enjoy life to its fullest. A mentor and motivator, Maribel would
give time, money, clothes, and advice to students who were less fortunate and
had a strained family life. She made them comfortable enough that they
confessed their problems and she offered solutions.
Speeding
in her old white Toyota like a woman with a divine purpose and a ticket
plastered to her windshield, Maribel would always arrive a few minutes late but
always left long after all the faculty had cleared out, talking to students in
hushed, soothing tones, probing to see how she could help them. In Venezuela, she
used to say, you were not on time unless you were fifteen minutes late.
In
her first teaching year, Maribel put up a beautiful Christmas tree in the
lobby, without consulting the powers that be. After a letter of reprimand was
put in her file and a verbal dress down, she happily continued to add decorations
and secret Santa gifts under the tree, helped by students of various religions
who enjoyed the Christmas tree as much as she did.
Every
year, Maribel voluntarily raised thousands of dollars to help students have a
memorable prom. She gave endless hours of her time in preparation for the
fundraiser, the planning, and the execution.
The
mother of three children and a devoted wife, Maribel found time to be a
substitute mom to other people’s children who were not as lucky as hers. Her genuine
care put students at ease and gave them comfort.
Always
in pursuit of excellence, Maribel set out to become a nationally certified Spanish
teacher. She did not give up after failing twice. On the first attempt, after
building a year-long portfolio, she flew to San Antonio to deliver the project
in person because she would have missed the deadline otherwise. She succeeded
on the third try. Sadly, she did not get to earn much of the merit pay that
came with the national certification.
Although
a picture of health and seldom sick, Maribel was stricken by a rare form of
cancer. She passed away last year in her beloved Venezuela, in the prime of her
life, surrounded by friends and family, and mourned by hundreds of former
students.
As
her March 14 birthday approaches, I found a favorite picture that captures
perfectly her wonderful spirit, her contagious smile, and her zest for life. Maribel’s
generosity, love of children, of dancing, teaching, and cooking has touched so
many along the way.
Because
Maribel had never met a stranger, I imagine my friend with beautiful curly
tresses and a sunny face, rolling up her sleeves and teaching angels in Heaven
how to properly plan a fiesta and cook arepas.
Thanks for the nice memorial--it's hard to imagine MSMS without Mrs. Luck's amazingly energetic personality! -Sara Mc c/o 2003
ReplyDeleteShe was an exceptional lady. We all miss her.
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