Millennial Dating Scene for a Conservative Male

If you are a millennial male, support Trump, refuse to dishonor respect for our president, and refuse to join in the never-ending barrage of baseless hate coming from the MSM, Hollywood, the establishment pop-culture, you are an oddity and chances of finding a decent date are slim. To get a date, you could pretend to be a liberal but then you would not be true to reality and your beliefs.

The leftist deep-seated hate is the result of the progressive community and the main stream media creating a sound-bite exaggeration of President Trump and his supporters, as the personification of everything they find detestable. This visceral hate is not based on reality and the real Donald Trump. It is a collective hate of a pre-conceived caricature that does not exist except in their deluded minds.

You had a good childhood but then your reality as an adult has changed. You went to the best schools, you excelled, your parents raised you to respect your elders, you went to church, paid taxes, Social Security, Medicare, Medicaid, and even served in the military, neither of which is easy or fun. But reality now is a country interested in taking care of welfare mamas’ needs, criminals, Muslim economic refugees, and illegal aliens, not needy Americans, the homeless or sick veterans.

Ben dreamed as a child that, in his 30s, he would have a wife, a nice car, a house, and an interesting job that would afford him to support his family. The truth for thirty-somethings is double digit housing and healthcare inflation, wages that were flat-lined for twenty years and a shortage of jobs, housing, and the ever-more unaffordable Obamacare with $800/month premiums for some and $7,500 deductibles.

Nearly everyone he went to school with is an uber-liberal, working for non-profits or academia, writing grants to study insulting and outrageous topics to most Americans.

On a recent outing, his date described that she was enrolled in “an especially difficult program because it was interdisciplinary, queer theory and white patriarchal predisposition to violence against women of color.”

It only got worse when she discussed her issues with getting access to birth control, and her history of mental illness, PTSD, scares with cervical cancer from contracting HPV, having been a multiple event victim of sexual assaults, and how the police believed the man’s story and not hers.

One can only imagine the visions Ben had of this nightmarish female in front of him; thrown on the hood of a police car, hand-cuffed and arrested for something this mentally deranged millennial woman might say later. He excused himself and said good-bye before the date proceeded any further.

Then there was the very young and drop-dead gorgeous young widow whose husband had passed away. She was so bereaved that, two weeks later, she had a profile up on a dating site because she was so lonely, hurt, crying, and depressed, missing her deceased husband immensely!

Many dates had “daddy” issues and often children from different fathers. Early thirties women seemed to have very strong feelings on pro-gay marriage and adoption, and pro-abortion.

Some dates ordered the most expensive dishes on the menu and ate very little of them, while others drank too much. The tab was always huge. Other dates talked non-stop and asked probing questions to ascertain whether the guy shared her ultra-liberal philosophy. It was a mine field of potential rejections based on feelings about feminist causes these women invariably supported because they wanted their free birth-control and the power to kill their babies on demand.

Dating in a college town was very toxic. “The university is a magnet of rotating single women who are like the gay-best-friend barreling towards old-maid middle-aged women who are ignorant of their own brainwashing from the college environment.”

Statistically, this man found out from his dates, way too many college women were studying law, psychology, sociology, and social work. They seemed to delight in leading men on, often making them drive for hours to go on a promised outing, and then not show up for the date after the man had spent a lot of time and resources to get there.

Our culture seems to have devolved into a culture where bad behavior is rewarded and liberals, who are often the loudest voices in any room, overpower the cowering conservatives. Such mini-victories reinforce bad behavior and its acceptance and the liberals always up the ante.

Young women have become as debauched as any male could have imagined a decade ago. They are getting away with more slutty and outrageous behavior because Hollywood, television, and feminism reinforce debauched lifestyles.

Lack of a moral compass, lack of Christian faith, missing a stable family role model, the substantial use of drugs, among which marijuana is the gateway drug, the hook-up mentality with a total stranger from online dating sites, and the shameless overt, in your face, sexuality of the type, if it feels good, why not do it in the street, complete the decadent picture of the dating scene.